Vertueuse Dame

Seems like 10 years

2009-12-06T16:23:00.000-08:00

So I realize I haven't been a faithful blogger. No one ever reads my blog anywayz even those people I bribed....LOL, but it's all good. Gosh, it's been like forever, I practically forgot I even had this "outlet". I know I actually started this blog as a way to let out all that restlessness in me early last year. I was really just this giddy freshman so excited to be in college and far away from home too :). But it's been almost two years now and A LOT has changed. Mehn, where do I even start from? *sigh* Almost two years have come and gone and it seems like I have aged 10 years in that time. Like someone once told me. "I mourn the simplicity of my youth." I have grown up! Yeah, that's the simple explanation. :) It's a good thing, but at the same time, it's not that simple anymore. From guys, to school, to money, to other girls LOL, to even trying to understand myself, trying to discover my purpose in life/what God has planned for me, these past 1.10 years have been a roller coaster. Everything that has happened or is happening, has made me view life in a whole different light. My blog title/name is going to change after this post as a result of my new found perspective/self. During the next few weeks (Immediately after Finals), I'll be dishing out the all the gist.

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Miss Toye

I want this Guy!

2008-07-30T15:57:00.000-07:00

I'm the guy who will call you every single morning and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams.

I'm the guy who will call you and tell you "i love you and you make me smile" just because.

I'm the guy who will blindfold you and take you to the beach, let you run your toes through the sand and then make you guess where we are.

I'm the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.

I'm the guy who won't pressure you to do things you dont want to.

I'm the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.

I'm the guy who kisses you on the forehead.

I'm the guy who doesn't kiss and tell.

I'm the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.

I'm the guy who'll randomly tickle you just to hear you giggle.

I'm the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.

I'm the guy who's excited all day because i'm looking forward to our date that night.

I'm the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.

I'm the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.

I'm the guy who'll say i love you first because i'm not afraid to say it.

I'm the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.

I'm the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name.

I''m the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends he loves you.

I'm the guy who doesnt mess with other girls when i have you.

I'm the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.

I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.

I'm the guy that makes you laugh when you're down, makes you happy when you're mad, and makes you smile when you're frowning.

I'm the guy that isn't afraid to eat ice cream with you when you're having a bad day.

I'm the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.

I'm the guy who isn't always trying to act like a hard ass around you.

I'm the guy who will still be your best friend even after we break up.

I'm the guy you call when you have no one else to turn to.

I'm the guy that will come pick your drunk ass up at 3 am when I have to be up at 8.

I'm the guy that tells you the right thing to do or how I really feel, not just what you want to hear.

I'm the guy that loves you for you and not what my friends think of you.

I'm the guy that will love you even when you do something so retarded that I normally wouldn't want to be seen with you.

I'm the guy that is always loyal no matter what.

I'M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.

I AM THIS GUY... one of many... who always ends up losing her to the jerks who'll treat her like crap and are "too good of a friend" to date.

Is it possible to ever find such a guy? Doesn't all these happen only in fairy tales????????

D'banj finally acts like a UN Ambassador!

2008-07-23T12:09:00.000-07:00

I kno this gist is a bit stale, but I just thought I should report it again for our benefit and by "OUR", I mean you and I, yes Iyin, Ibrahim and the rest of you that I have been begging to read my blog.......lol

There is no doubt that that one of Nigeria’s hottest pop stars, D’Banj takes his United Nations title very seriously. Towards the tail end of may, just a few weeks after the koko master spoke at a youth summit in Abuja that was aimed at directing Nigerian Youth towards becoming leaders in national development, the singer led a peace rally at the Niger delta..

The campaign tagged Starz N Fanz of Niger Delta Campaign for Peace was aimed at curbing violence, kidnapping, cultism and pipeline vandalism that has become rampant in the area.

“I was relaxing at a club in Abuja when a friend of mine approached me and said ‘D’Banj you are here relaxing in Abuja. You can not do that in Port Harcourt. I have a wine bar in Port Harcourt but violence has not allowed business to thrive in the land.’ When I heard this, I thought it was necessary to organize this charity movement because a lot of the money we earn from showbiz comes from Port Harcourt, not even Lagos. We need to correct our youths, we do not have to wait for the government to do everything for us, we have to take up some initiatives by ourselves,” says D’Banj who is Nigeria’s first UN Youth Ambassador for Peace

“I want to urge everyone at the Niger Delta to drop your guns and pick up the microphone. Most of the people that have died without taping their potentials are youths. if I had died four years either through cultism or any form of violence ago there world have lost out on the opportunities to attain the heights I have attained do far, ” he adds

The participants at the peaceful rally stormed the streets of the Niger delta carrying wearing t-shirts with slogans like ‘say no to kidnapping, violence and cultism,’ ‘embrace dialogue,’ ‘embrace peace,’ etc. Thousands of fans from the region flooded the streets in support of the campaign.. Celebrities also present at included Professor Linkin, Don Jazzy and the Mo’ Hits Family, among others.

D’Banj who was crowned Youth Ambassador for Peace by the United Nations in 2007 will be unveiling his foundation in August, 2008. The foundation will be geared towards education and empowerment for Youth in Nigeria.